The third step in recovery from substance use disorders such as alcoholism or addiction is often referred to as the "making a decision" step. This step involves a moral inventory andwhere an individual admits his or her power of choice has been overcome by the disease, acknowledging life without the ability to control their behavior and choosing to turn their will and life over to God as they understand him.
The specific language of the third step in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is as follows:
God, I offer myself to Thee, to build with me and to do with me as Thou wilt. Relieve me of the bondage of self, that I may better do Thy will. Take away my difficulties, that victory over them may bear witness to those I would help of Thy power, Thy love, and Thy way of life. May I do Thy will always.
This prayer serves as a core part of the AA recovery program and represents the first real action step towards aligning with the higher power. In many AA meetings, the third step is the first one recited as part of the working the steps process. The purpose of this step is to help the individual release themselves from the patterns that have caused them pain and bring about positive change. Through surrendering their will and control to a higher power, individuals are released from the bonds of their addictions and allowed to follow a path of healing that is guided by their higher power.
The spirit of the third step is about selflessness and service. As members of the AA community, they are encouraged to approach sobriety as a way of serving others rather than self-sufficiency. This approach is in line with the broader 12-step program philosophy which emphasizes sharing one's experience, strength, and hope with each other. Through working the steps and engaging in collective recovery efforts, members of AA are able to support one another in their journey towards a brighter and more fulfilling life. The third step is not seen as a religious practice but rather as a personal spiritual awakening that allows individuals to reconnect with a higher power and find meaning and purpose in their lives.