A controlling husband can be a persistent source of tension in a marriage. He may constantly micro-manage your actions, limit your personal freedoms, and批评 you for the slightest misstep. But how can you tell if your husband is really in control, or is he simply showing his love and concern for you? Take our quiz to find out if you're dealing with a controlling丈夫.
How to Take the Quiz
- Complete the entire quiz in one sitting and answer honestly.
- Don't worry about getting results immediately; the quiz is designed to help you understand your situation rather than provide a definitive diagnosis.
- Reflect on your relationship with your husband and consider if his behavior aligns with your expectations and needs.
Quiz Questions
- Does your husband decide who you should be around?
- Yes
- No
- Sometimes
- Yes, but for good reasons
- Does your husband decide on the types of jobs you should have?
- Yes
- No
- Sometimes
- Only so that I don’t regret it later
- Does your husband get upset when you speak your mind?
- Yes
- No
- Sometimes
- It’s possible
- It happens when I say something wrong
- Does your husband abuse you when you speak your mind?
- Yes
- No
- Sometimes
- It happens when I say something wrong
- Does your husband mock you when you speak your mind?
- Yes, all the time
- Sometimes
- No, never
- Only when I say dumb things
- Does your husband reject your suggestions, making them look dumb?
- Yes, all the time
- No, never
- Sometimes
- Yes, but it's rare
- Is your husband very critical of you in general?
- Yes, all the time
- No
- Sometimes
- Yes, but it's rare
- Does your husband compare you to other women, pretending that he does so to help you improve yourself?
- Yes
- No
- Sometimes
- He has not done it yet
- Do you feel like an outsider when you are around your husband’s friends?
- Yes
- No
- Sometimes
- Not yet
- Is your husband the wealthy one in the relationship?
- Yes
- No
- Yes, but I don’t complain because I make money too
- Yes, but it doesn’t bother you at all
- Do you find yourself giving in to your husband’s demands to calm him down?
- Yes, all the times
- Sometimes
- Rarely
- No, never
- Have you lost out on friends since being in love with your husband?
- Yes, many of them
- Yes, a few friends
- One or two
- No, never
- Do they make you feel guilty over the smallest things?
- Yes
- Yes, sometimes
- Rarely
- No, never
- Do you find them snooping, eavesdropping, or spying on you?
- Yes, all the times
- Sometimes
- Rarely
- No, never
- How does he react when you try to spend some time alone?
- He gets furious and frustrated
- He gets insecure and gets passive-aggressive
- He does not understand it but is okay with it
- He understands the need for me to be alone sometimes
Results
After completing the quiz, you'll receive a score that indicates how controlling your husband is. Based on your score, you may:
- Recognize that your husband is showing signs of controlling behavior
- Understand that your relationship may benefit from more open communication and mutual respect
- Gain insights into areas where you can build stronger partnerships and emotional freedom
Remember, taking the controlling husband quiz is not meant to replace professional advice or therapy. If you suspect that you are in an unhealthy relationship, it's important to seek support from trusted sources like friends, family, or a domestic violence hotline.
