Getting a 4-year-old to listen can be challenging, but it's not impossible with the right approach. Children at this age are often independent and might not fully understand the importance of listening. However, there are several strategies you can use to help cultivate their listening skills.
Make Meaningful Connections
According to Dr. Justin Coulson, connections are key when it comes to parenting. Making meaningful connections with your child can help them feel seen, heard, and valued, which in turn can encourage them to listen to you.
Example:
Instead of saying "Don't hit your peers," you could say, "Please be gentle when touching your peers."
Use Simple Language
When giving commands to your child, use simple and clear language. Avoid long sentences and complex instructions.
Example:
Instead of saying "Close the book," tell your child, "Close the book, please."
