I'm truly in love with my dream. But my sister isn't. She's a narcissist. This is my true confessions.
What is narcissism?
Narcissism is a psychological condition where a person has an unhealthy and often inflated sense of their own worth. They often have an exaggerated sense of their own importance and believe that they are constantly being watched and judged by others.
In her case, what was meant to be a happy, supportive family environment turned into a battleground. I watched as she destroyed our relationship, using me as bait to please her boyfriend. She acted differently around my dad—she was gentle and caring—yet when she was alone with me, she became cruel and manipulative.
It's no wonder she was always the one to receive all the praise and attention in the family. She was the golden child, the one everyone idolized. And yet, I was the one who ended up feeling like I was walking on eggshells around her. Everytime we were together, I felt like I had to watch my step.
Why does she act this way?
I'm not sure. She's always been this way, even as a child. My parents attribute it to her feeling neglected by them, which could be why she clings to us so tightly. But it's difficult to know for sure.
What is clear is that her behavior has taken its toll on our once-close relationship. I used to look forward to spending time with her, but now, every interaction feels like a challenge. Every conversation is an opportunity for her to score points and gain the upper hand.
How does this affect me?
It's devastating. I've been trying to cope with her behaviors for years, but it's not working. I've tried setting boundaries, but she breaks them almost immediately. I've tried talking to her about her behavior, but she refuses to listen.
I've even considered seeking professional help, but I'm not sure where to start. I feel like I'm losing my mind, like I'm going crazy. But I can't stop her. I feel like I'm caught in some sort of twisted, upside-down reality.
What can I do?
It's unclear to me. I don't know how to deal with this. I don't know how to change her. But I can't just let her continue to treat me this way. I can't just stand by while she destroys our relationship.
##Narcissism is a serious心理健康 issue that can have long-term effects on individuals and their relationships. If you suspect that you or someone you know may be experiencing narcissistic behavior, it's important to reach out for help. There are plenty of resources available, from therapy to support groups, to help individuals navigate the challenges of dealing with a narcissistic relative. You don't have to face this alone.
