I don't Know What I'm Doing
When you find yourself puzzled and uncertain about what you're doing with your life, it's natural to feel a sense of unease. You might be sitting there, staring blankly at the computer screen or wondering aimlessly through your home, and you just can't seem to figure out what you're meant to be doing. The feeling of not knowing can be empowering, though, because it's a clear sign that you're actively seeking answers. If you're in the midst of a big life change, whether it's starting a new job, switching careers, or embarking on a journey of personal development, uncertainty is a common companion.
Understandable Stress
The feeling of being overwhelmed, directionless, and helpless can be quite understandable. As much as we'd like to have our lives figured out by now, none of us has gotten there yet. Life is充满了 twists and turns, surprises, and learning experiences. When we're faced with a big change, our instincts might kick in, and we'll do whatever we can to cope, even if that means hitting the pause button on our lives. But the trick is to not let the feeling of not knowing define us. Instead, we want to use it as an opportunity to gain clarity.
Take Charge of Your Journey
Instead of feeling lost, take charge of your journey. Take inventory of your skills, interests, and values. Think about what brings you joy and fulfillment. What are you passionate about? What challenges you? What are you willing to invest in? By understanding yourself better, you can make purposeful choices that align with your desires and values.
Define Your Success
Next, define your version of success. What does success look like to you? Is it climbing the corporate ladder at a big company, building a stable business, or traveling the world? It's important to remember that success is subjective and that striving towards a version of success that isn't authentic to you will lead to dissatisfaction and frustration.
Seek Clarity
Seek clarity by journaling your thoughts and feelings on the questions we posed earlier. Allow yourself to explore your answers fully. Remember, the more you practice asking yourself these questions, the more natural they will become. If writing isn't your thing, then try meditating or speaking out loud to yourself. Do whatever it takes to help your mind grapple with these questions.
Build Beliefs
Build beliefs that support your journey. Declare to yourself that you are constantly moving towards your dream life. Remind yourself of the steps you're taking and that you are exactly where you need to be. This will help to silence the voice of doubt.
Take Action
Take action, even if it feels small or insignificant. Every step you take brings you closer to your goal. It's not about the destination, but about the journey本身. Remember that feeling overwhelmed or stuck is just temporary. You've got this!
Embrace the Journey
Embrace the journey and the journey itself will become a source of joy and fulfillment. Don't forget to take breaks and enjoy the journey. Life is short, so find the joy and fulfillment along the way。
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This article was initially published on Elyssa Desai.