Little, in the context of sexuality and BDSM, refers to participants who engage in role-playing, usually in a heteronormative orgenderqueer manner, as Daddy or Mommy. This can involve a range of roles, positions, and dynamics, often with partners of differing genders. The term Little describes a person who can experience BDSM through a childlike and vulnerable mindset, sometimes referred to as a 'little space.' Little players may enjoy certain aspects of BDSM and engage in it as a form of play or a preference.
However, Little is also a term used by age regressors to identify their persona due to past trauma, which may not inherently involve sexual interests. Little players are often associated with care caregivers (CG) who can use nicknames such as mommy, daddy, or caregiver.
The experience of Little within a BDSM relationship can vary widely. Some Little players may be more dominant or submissive in their roles, while others may explore both Little and BDSM-submissive roles. Little play can involve a wide range of intensities, from experimentation to deep attachment, and may require certain rules and restrictions. For example, Little players may be expected to follow certain bedtime routines or be punished for wrongdoing.
The document suggests that conceptualizing age-play outside of its pathologization as paraphilic infantilism, and instead as a form of adult play, can help reduce stigma and discrimination against people's sexual preferences and experiences. It also highlights that conceptualizing sexuality in the framework of play—the idea that play is an autotelic activity that involves variations of pleasure not necessarily subordinate to enjoyment—makes it possible to expand understanding of both age-play and sexuality.