Is My Husband Controlling Quiz

Introduction

Are you feeling like your husband is constantly overseeing your life and making decisions without proper discussion? Has he become overly critical of your choices and decisions? Taking this quiz can help you understand if your husband's behavior is indicative of controlling behavior.

Questionnaire

Below are 20 questions that may help you determine if your husband is controlling you. Please read each question carefully and select the option that best reflects your experience.

1. Does your husband decide who you should be around? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) Yes, but for good reasons

2. Does your husband decide on the types of jobs you should have? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) Only so that I don’t regret it later

3. Does your husband get upset when you speak your mind? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) It’s possible

4. Does your husband abuse you when you speak your mind? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) It happens when I say something wrong

5. Does your husband mock you when you speak your mind? (A) Yes, all the time (B) Sometimes (C) No, never (D) Only when I say dumb things

6. Does your husband reject your suggestions, making them look dumb? (A) Yes, all the time (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) Yes, but it's rare

7. Is your husband very critical of you in general? (A) Yes, all the time (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) Yes, but it's rare

8. Does your husband compare you to other women, pretending that he does so to help you improve yourself? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) He has not done it yet

9. Do you feel like an outsider when you are around your husband’s friends? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) Not yet

10. Is your husband the wealthy one in the relationship? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Yes, but I don’t complain because I make money too (D) Yes, but it doesn’t bother you at all

11. Do you find yourself giving in to your husband’s demands to calm him down? (A) Yes, all the times (B) Sometimes (C) Rarely (D) No, never

12. Have you lost out on friends since being in love with your husband? (A) Yes, many of them (B) Yes, a few friends (C) One or two (D) No, never

13. Do they make you feel guilty over the smallest things? (A) Yes (B) Yes, sometimes (C) Rarely (D) No, never

14. Do you find them snooping, eavesdropping or spying on you? (A) Yes (B) All the time (C) Sometimes (D) Never

15. How does he react when you try to spend some time alone? (A) He gets furious and frustrated (B) He gets insecure and gets passive-aggressive (C) He does not understand it but is okay with it (D) He understands the need for me to be alone sometimes

16. Does he control your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors? (A) Yes (B) Sometimes (C) It's possible (D) No

17. How often do the two of you fight because your husband doesn’t trust you? (A) Often (B) Rarely (C) Never

18. Does he blame you for all the problems in your relationship? (A) Yes (B) No (C) Sometimes (D) It's possible

19. How often does your husband criticise your appearance, opinions, and you in general? (A) Often (B) Rarely (C) Never

20. Are you comfortable with your personal space and alone time? (A) Always (B) Most of the time (C) Sometimes (D) Never

##Taking this quiz can help you understand if your husband's behavior is indicative of controlling behavior. If you have multiple yes answers, it may be necessary to have a heart-to-heart conversation with your husband and set boundaries to ensure your independence and autonomy. Remember, healthy relationships are built on trust, communication, and mutual respect. If you're struggling, consider seeking support from friends, family, or professionals.