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This chart is designed to help parents navigate the challenging task of teaching valuable life lessons to their teenagers.
Overview
The chart outlines specific expectations and consequences for a range of behaviors across different age groups, ranging from self-control and responsibility to independence and decision-making skills. The goal is to encourage positive behavioral changes by setting clear limits and rewarding good behavior.
Age Group Basics
Each age group has been broken down into basic categories, such as consideration, kindness, responsible use of possessions, honesty, fairness, obedience, decision-making, responsibility, courage, discernment, compassion, and independence.
Positive Consequences
For each positive behavior, there are corresponding positive rewards. These can include increased freedom, privileges, or special treats, making the positive consequences very effective and appealing to teenagers.
Negative Consequences
Conversely, for negative behaviors, there are negative consequences that serve as a deterrent. The severity of the negative consequences decreases as the age of the child increases, allowing for less stringent discipline as they grow.
Behaviors Not Listed
Some behaviors, such as lying, may not have been included on the chart, as they are considered unacceptable and should be addressed directly with the child. Additionally, parents should make themselves known to the child when certain behaviors are planned or upcoming.
Parental Role
The role of the parent is crucial in implementing and monitoring these rules. Parents should provide guidance, support, and clear communication to help their children understand and adhere to the chart.
Importance of Consistency
Consistency is key when enforcing these rules. Parents should apply the rules consistently to foster a sense of security and trust with their child.
Resources and Support
For more detailed guidance or specific resources on any aspect of parenting, families can visit http://www.parenting-advice.com/ or http://www.healthychildren.org/.
##The teenage rules and consequences chart provides a structured approach to teaching important life lessons to teenagers. By setting clear expectations and offering appropriate incentives, parents can encourage positive behavioral changes and lay a solid foundation for the future.
