Aromanticism, often referred to as "aro," is a romantic orientation that refers to individuals who experience little to no romantic attraction. Instead, they may have a limited inclination towards traditional romantic gestures or prefer platonic connections over romantic entanglements.
What is Aromanticism?
Aromanticism is a Spectrum, which includes various identities such as aromantic, greyromantic, demiromantic, Lithromantic, and Aroflux. Within these identities, there are variations in how individuals experience romantic attraction and how they navigate relationships.
Why Take the Aromantic Test?
The Aromantic Test is a powerful tool for understanding one's own romantic inclinations. It can reveal where you fall on the aromantic spectrum and provide insights into your unique emotional connections and preferences. By taking this test, you can gain a deeper understanding of your own romantic identity and explore the beauty of diverse emotional landscapes beyond traditional romantic expectations.
How to Take the Test
To take the Aromantic Test, simply answer the following questions honestly. Remember that the results are confidential and will not be shared without your consent.
- Have you had a relationship yet?
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Yes
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No, but I would love to
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No, and I don't really like relationships
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Maybe. I don't really dislike relationships
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Yes, but we were really close before / No, but I might fall in love with a close friend
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No, and I don't really feel like it / Something like friends with benefits, yes
- When you see a couple kissing, what do you think?
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I wonder how close they were before
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Nothing, and I don't consider it myself at all
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Nothing / I might think it's hot
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Aww, I want that, too!
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I might find it cute and be happy for them, but don't want / understand it
- Have you had sexual intercourse yet?
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Yes, with a person I'm close to
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No, but I might feel like it
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Yes, with a person I'm close to
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Yes, I liked it
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No, but I often consider it
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Yes, but I didn't like it
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No, and I really don't want to
- Have you ever had a crush on somebody (with or without a relationship)?
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Yes, / Not sure
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Does something like a "sexual crush" exist?
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Nope, never. but I might find someone sexually attractive
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Yes, but the person was a really close friend
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Nope, and I don't find anyone sexually attractive
- Do you flirt?
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Yes, I do
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No, with friends sometimes
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Not really
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Yes, / I'm too shy, but I'd like to
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Yes, but not for romantic reasons…maybe to get a one night stand
- Which sentence below are you least likely to say/think?
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"Love & sex? Love them!"
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"I've never been in love"
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"I love sex"
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"I think I have a crush"
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"I could literally fall in love with anyone"
- Which statement about you is the most accurate?
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I don't enjoy sex at all. Maybe masturbation, but sex isn't for me
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A relationship with love and sexual intercourse is nothing I'd consider
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Marriage for romantic reasons doesn't make sense for me
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I don't know how I could not fall in love
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I don't understand how someone could fall in love with someone they just met
- Which type of permanent relationship is the most appealing to you?
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A romantic, sexless relationship
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A stable relationship with everything it usually comes with
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Friends with benefits / something similar
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Best friends with someone great
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I'll be fine with friends / best friends
- Do you consider marriage to be in your future?
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Not really. Maybe for financial reasons, or to bond with my sexual partner
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No, but whatever floats someone's boat
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Maybe, but I'd probably need some time & would have to know the person a long time beforehand
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Yes, of course
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Yes, but just for the love
- When someone asks why you're single, what's your answer?
- Everyone thinks I'm a prude because I don't want sex — maybe that's why'
- "I don't want a relationship under any circumstances'
- "I don't want a relationship'
- "I wouldn't enjoy a sex-only relationship'
- "I don't know, but I keep my eyes open!'
- "I haven't found the right one yet'' / ''I'm not close enough to anyone right now''
How to Interpret the Results
After completing the Aromantic Test, review your answers and consider how they align with your perception of yourself. The test results can provide you with insights into your own emotional connections and preferences, helping you better understand your romantic identity.
If you identified as an Aromantic, you may find that the test confirmed your beliefs or revealed areas where you could grow. If you identified as someone who experiences romantic attractions, you might want to explore how to better understand and express your romantic feelings and preferences.
No matter your result, embracing your authentic self and understanding that there are many ways to experience love and relationships is key.