Welcome to our exploration of the slang and jargon used within the swinging community. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or about to explore this exciting lifestyle for the first time, understanding the language can make interacting with others so much smoother. Below, we've compiled a list of common swinger terms and their meanings to help you navigate the swinging world with confidence.
1. Swinger
A term used to describe someone who practices consensual non-monogamy by engaging in the swapping of sexual partners and/or group sex.
2. Couple
Refers to a man and a woman who are in a romantic relationship, either married, de facto, in a committed relationship, or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
3. Soft Swap
A soft swap involves engaging in sexual activities with several couples where the couples will swap partners and participate in oral sex with someone other than their partner. This does not include penetrative intercourse with anyone besides their own partner.
4. Full Swap
A full swap is a scenario where two couples engage in sexual activities, including penetrative vaginal intercourse, with each other. The term is often used to describe a scenario where two couples are intimately connected and choose to engage in sexual activities with each other's partners.
5. Lifestyle
A term used to describe the swinging community as a whole, as well as the activities and interests associated with it. Individuals who are part of the lifestyle are often called "in the lifestyle" or "swingers."
6. Play
This term is used within the context of the swinging lifestyle to refer to sexual activities, not necessarily including penetrative intercourse. The term is often used to describe sexual activities in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere.
7. Upside Down Pineapple
A symbol commonly used by swingers to show their pride in their lifestyle. The pineapple is upside down, representing the "upside down" position typically associated with sex in the lifestyle. Most swappers will wear pineapple-themed items or display the upside down pineapple on their porches or in their homes to let others know they are part of the swinging scene.
8. Unicorn
A term used to describe a single woman who is open to joining couples for sexual adventures. These women are often highly sought after and can add an air of mystery and allure to any swinging encounter.
9. Bull
A term used to describe a single male who takes part in the lifestyle. Bull swimmers are often described as well-endowed and could be a welcome addition to a swinging party or relationship.
10. Dragon
A term used by bisexual singles looking to join swinging couples. Like unicorns, dragons are mythical and hard to find, but unlike unicorns, they come in multiple flavors such as bear,狐妖 (fox), and beast.
11. Bi-Comfortable
A term used to describe someone who enjoys sexual activity with the opposite gender, but may not prefer it. The term is often used to explain someone's interest in sexual relationships with both genders.
12. Bi-Curious
A term used to describe someone who has a sexual curiosity for the opposite gender, as well as the willingness to explore sexual activity with them.
13. Bi-Receptive
A term used to describe someone who is comfortable allowing others of the same gender to engage in sexual activities with them but may not be comfortable returning the same level of intimacy.
14. Bi-Sexual
A term used to describe someone who is physically, romantically, and sexually attracted to both genders.
15. Bi-Situational
A term used to describe someone who may not always choose or prefer to engage in sexual relationships with both genders, but does so under certain circumstances or in specific situations.
16. Bondage
A term used to describe a sexual preference involving the tying, binding, or restraining of a person for the purpose of pleasure, aesthetics, and/or psychological satisfaction.
17. Boner Pills
A playful term used to refer to any medication or supplement that can enhance erectile function in men.
18. Viagra, Cialis, Levitra:Commonly used medications for treating erectile difficulties.
19. Bull
A term used to describe a single male who takes part in the lifestyle. Bull swimmers are often included in hotwifing and threesomes.
20. Clean
A term used to describe someone who is free from sexually transmitted diseases and is hygienically clean.
21. Compersion
A term that describes the feeling of happiness, joy, pleasure, or arousal created by witnessing your partner experiencing happiness, joy, pleasure, or arousal.
22. consent
A clear and positive agreement, given without manipulation or coercion, that allows participants to engage in sexual activity or sexual advancement.
23. Cuckold (Cucks)
A term used to describe a situation where one partner watches or is involved in sexual activities while their partner receives pleasure from someone else. Often used in the context of cuckolding, the cuck is the dominant partner, and his wife is the submitted partner.
It's essential to note that while many of these terms may be widely understood by those within the swinging community, many are also offensive or discriminatory and should be used with caution to avoid causing harm or offense.