Submissive BDSM is a style of adult-centered sexuality that involves power exchanges and consent. In this article, we will explore the different types of submissives within the context of BDSM culture. Understanding these types can help individuals communicate more effectively and ensure their safety during BDSM interactions.
Submissive Brat
Submissive brats are individuals who enjoy engaging in playful resistance. They might push boundaries, challenge authority, or test the limits of their partners. The term "brat" suggests a mischievous or spoiled child, but in the context of BDSM, it refers to a playful and assertive sub. These submissives often seek attention and appreciation from their doms through their adventurous and mischievous behavior.
Example behaviors
- Pushing boundaries by asking for things they know they shouldn't
- Exercising authority over their partners, telling them how to behave
- Enjoying roleplay and other forms of sexual play
- Acting spoiled or demanding attention
Service Submissive
Service submissives are trained to provide services for their dominants, usually in the home. Their roles can range from cooking, cleaning, and laundry to running errands and paying bills. In addition to performing these Practical services, service submissives are also expected to engage in sexual services. They may be required to indulge in specific sexual practices, such as eating off their masters' plates or sleeping in their masters' beds.
Example behaviors
- Cooking and serving meals for their partners
- Refilling drinks and keeping them filled
- Performing oral or anal sex on their partners
- Cleaning various parts of their home, including clothing and bodies
- caring for children and young animals
Submissive Princess
Submissive princesses are typically young and feminine. they are trained to be pampered and adored by their dominiques. they are expected to behave in a subservient manner and fulfill the whims of their masters. Some may even try to act like mini-doms by demanding attention and respect.
Example behaviors
- Seeking constant admiration and validation from their dominiques
- Having a spoiled and dependent personality
- Enjoying role-play scenarios where they are the center of attention
- Responding strongly to praise and positive reinforcement
Bottom
Bottoms are the recipients of stimulation during a BDSM scene. Unlike dominique or top positions, bottoms do not engage in sexual submission. Rather, they serve as vessels for their partner's sexual desires and allow them to experience pleasure. These bottom positions can range from gentle and soft touches to more intense forms of physical contact.
Example behaviors
- Receiving sensation and stimulation from their partner's touch or penetration
- Asking for stimulation or asking their partner to engage in certain types of play
- Regaining control after a scene ends
- Negotiating limits and setting boundaries before the scene
Masochist
Masochists are individuals who enjoy experiencing pain and suffering as a form of sexual pleasure. They may engage in bondage, whipping, or other forms of distress to achieve a pleasurable feeling. Some masochists may also enjoy forcing pain onto others, although this is not a common practice in BDSM.
Example behaviors
- Enjoying physical pain and suffering as a form of pleasure
- Misbehaving or fighting back during play
- Asking for painful kinks such as needleplay or knifeplay
- Asking for intensity or additional stimulation
SAM (Smart Assed Masochist)
A SAM is a type of submerge who combines the traits of SAM and brat submissives. They exhibit playful and impish behavior while also seeking pain or punishment.SAMs might provoke their DOMS with their sarcastic comments or by making faces while they are being dominant.
Example behaviors
- Making sarcastic remarks, mocking their DOMS
- Making faces, smirking or snickering
- Turning away or avoiding eye contact when their DOMS is speaking
- Engaging in playful struggles or resistance during play
Break Me Sub
Break me subs are all about physical struggle and resistance. They typically push their limits and test the DOMS's power. These subs may fight back, fight until they are restrained or even run away from their partners.
Example behaviors
- Resisting physically until they are restrained
- Kicking, hitting or pushing back against their partner
- Running away or escaping from their DOMS
Model Submissive
Model submissives are typically attractive and concerned with their appearance. They may dress up in specific outfits, attend events, and promote themselves or their work. While some may be submissives in practice, others may focus solely on aesthetics and not engage in sexual or bondage practices.
Example behaviors
- Dressing up in BDSM gear, such as leather or corsets
- Posposing for cameras or taking photos
- Selling videos or images of themselves
- Being bound or restrained for artistic purpose
- Promoting themselves and their work on social media
Slave
A slave's primary role is to serve their DOM, fully submitting to their every need and desire. They are typically involved in power exchange relationships, where they give up all control to their partner.
Example behaviors
- Asking their DOM for permission to engage in sexual activities
- Obediently following DOM's orders both explicit and implied
- Surrendering complete control over themselves
- Being sexually available at all times
Pet
Petsubmissive roles are often based on primal play and bonding. They may wear costumes and accessories, act like animals, and interact in specific ways to bond with their owners.
Example behaviors
- Wearing costumes, collars, and other accessories that identify them as pets
- Being attached or tethered to a harness or collar
- Drinking and eating from specific dishes
- Responding to commands given to animals
- Sleeping in kennels or at the edge of a bed or on the floor
- Making animal noises, such as meowing, barking or neighing
Domestic Discipline
Domestic discipline is a style that aims to keep households running smoothly, with the man having the final say in matters of household management, discipline, and punishment.
duties
- Taking care of housework and chores
- Receiving discipline, including spanking or other forms of punishment.