It can be challenging to train a 4-year-old to use the toilet, but with the right approach, it can be successfully managed. The "sweet spot" for toilet training for most children seems to be between 27 to 32 months of age. If your child is not yet ready for toilet training, it may be necessary to allow some time for natural development. Additionally, keeping your child's mind neutral and avoiding punishment or reward can help encourage them to begin using the toilet.
When it's time to start toilet training, it's important to focus on patience and consistency. Have you tried rewarding your child for successful trips to the potty? It can be a great way to motivate them. Also, take into consideration your child's individual needs and abilities. If they have special dietary or fluid intake needs, these should be considered when developing a training schedule.
Overall, potty training is a significant milestone in your child's development and it's important to remember that every child is different. It may take some time for your child to become accustomed to using the toilet on their own. As they grow and develop, they will likely come to the realization that pooping in the toilet is the norm.
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