Family dinners hold a special place in many cultures, serving as a time to connect with loved ones, share meals, and bond over common interests. Despite its significance, many families may struggle with making family dinners a regular and meaningful tradition. This guide aims to provide tips, insights, and resources to assist families in establishing and maintaining a strong family dinner routine.
The History of Family Dinner Tables
The concept of gathering around a dining table for a meal emerged in the late 18th century, as dining rooms and tables became more widespread in American homes[^1^]. This tradition hassince been celebrated and cherished for its cultural and emotional value.
Benefits of Family Dinners
Family dinners offer a range of physical, social-emotional, and academic benefits for both children and adults[^2^]. For children, regular family dinners have been linked to improved language skills, lower risk of depression and anxiety, improved academic performance, and increased feelings of connectedness[^3^][^4^]. For adults, family dinners are associated with better nutrition, increased self-esteem, and reduced risk of depression[^5^][^6^].
The Role of Television and Cell Phones
While dinner may not always involve traditional dining etiquette, keeping TVs and cell phones out of the dining room is crucial to fully appreciate the social-emotional benefits of family dinners[^7^]^.
Keeping the Dining Experience Positive
When dining together, avoid pressuring your child for information or using family dinners as a time to probe for information[^8^]^.
##Creating and maintaining a regular family dinner routine is a rewarding challenge[^9^]^. By prioritizing this time, making it a fun and engaging experience, and avoiding distractions such as TVs and cell phones, families can lay a strong foundation for meaningful communication and connection.
Suggestions for Families
- Make family dinners a regular occurrence, preferably five to seven times a week[^10^].
- Choose age-appropriate activities to do during dinner.
- Encourage your child to talk about their day, and be present to listen[^11^]^.
- Model healthy conversation and eating habits.
- Address any issues or concerns within a supportive and understanding framework[^12^]^.
- Plan for unexpected interruptions by preparing for spontaneous conversations with key family members about personal growth and big events.
- Allow for moments of silence without judgment or pressure to fill the silence with positive interactions or gentle reminders.
Resources
- Food for Thought by Dr. Anne K. Fishel
- Family Dinner References
- Eating Family Meals Together at Home from JAMA Pediatrics
- The Conversation: Science says: eat with your kids
- NY Times: How to Have Better Family Meals
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